answers 0:is it ok for me and my boyfriend to perform oral if i have been tested positive for herpes??answers 1:Hey. What you describe does sound like herpes but strange because you have not had sex.Have you had oral sex? You can get it that way too if the girl has them on her face / coldsores.Go to the doctors and have a swab test done to know for sure.Don't freak out seriously herpes is really common - unfortunatley! :P...answers 2:i cant help but think that im infertile. my blood results are coming back on tuesday for pcos, thyroid and possibly hormone imbalance. but i had chlamydia when i was alot younger for 4months and i thought that i would lessen my chance of concieving but i read someones story on here that it made her completely sterile after 6months.it makes my heart drop i contracted that when i lost my virgini! ty and was young and foolish and naiive when my boyfriend at the time talked me into having unprotected sex.i was born to be a mum and my hope and faith is fading.how do i find out if the chlamydia has damage me to the point of being sterile??...answers 3:No No NO, you are not infertile from having chlamydia for 4 months!!! I have a friend who had Chlamydia for 2 YEARS and concieved totally naturally! What you are reading are extreme scare tactic stories!!! You have to remember......you are only able to concieve about 3 days out of the entire month! It's all about the correct timing......My friend who lost her virginity to her husband and never had anything took almost 2 years to get pregnant, because you must time it just right (I guess if you just have sex every day that lowers your chances also, don't know why). Most people who have caught chlamydia(which is the most prevelant STD) have it for at least a few months before finding our since it rarely has symptoms. I do ! believe however, that your immune system has a great deal to d! o with your fertility. Keeping yourself healthy, and BELIEVING that you can become pregnant are the most important aspects of actually becoming pregnant...............Release the fear in your mind that is holding you back, and you will become pregnant in no time.PLUS: symptoms from chlamydia would be endometriosis and PID, if you've never had these then I wouldn't worry about it....answers 4:If he had an STD he would know about it and if you know he had an STD why the hell would you even consider sleeping with himanswers 5:No, otherwise your boyfriend will get it too...Oral is how herpes spreads. Coldsaws are actually herpes.xxanswers 6:have a fertility test done. i am sorry to hear about what happened to you. good thing you realized you needed to get checked at some point. clamydia does cause sterility. i hope that this all works out for you. if you are sterile, remember, there are so many things that they can do these days, i understand the expense and the worry of insu! rance to cover such procedures, but dont give up. if your meant to be a mum, maybe god will see that you are. in the meantime, take care of you. be patient and just hope for the very best. good luck....answers 7:no, it isn't. Herpes can be transmitted to the mouth from the genitals and from the genitals to the mouth. And this can happen whether you have an active lesion or not.answers 8:It's impossible to say. Even if your boyfriend practiced safe sex both times, there's still a small chance that he could have contracted an STD. If he does have one, the chances of him transmitting it to you are quite good. You should always insist that your boyfriend gets tested for STD's before you become sexually active - and it's not a bad idea to get tested yourself as well, just to be sure. Since you're a virgin you're almost certainly OK, but it's a good habit to get into for later on in life....answers 9:This is stupid. You know what? Don't have sex.answers 10:my boyfriend ha! d sex 2 times so whats the chances of him having an STD? whats the chan! ce of me getting an STD? and im a virginanswers 11:No WAY! Do you both really want to share that??? ;-(=answers 12:No you are not protected. You can use a what is called a rubber dam for oral sex on a female who has herpes..but its a clumsy device. Best to just avoid.answers 13:Do you know where you have herpes? Is it oral or genital?If you have herpes, there is always a risk of passing it on, but it can be a very small risk in between outbreaks. As long as your partner is aware of that risk and prepared to take it, I don't see a problem. If you have genital herpes and it is him giving you oral sex, he can't catch genital herpes that way anyway. All he can catch is oral herpes - cold sores the same as 8 out of 10 adults already have. Oral herpes is that common.I have never worried about it with my boyfriend and I'd find it a bit strange if men were paranoid about it i the future. I and my boyfriend don't use protection for intercourse for example - we are in a long term rel! ationship and that is our choice. To give you an idea of the risk, my boyfriend of 9 years has always got cold sores since he was a child. Since we knew he had oral herpes, he still gave me unprotected oral sex, we just avoided outbreaks. It took 7 years before I caught it. I might have been lucky and never have done. I might have caught it first time. But I am talking about my catching genital herpes, and you are talking about him catching oral herpes, which most people aren't bothered about catching to the same extent. Oral herpes is 'just a cold sore' and is not stigmatised like genital herpes. Put it this way, he has taken the same risk kissing 8 out of 10 girls he has ever kissed as he would take giving you oral sex. And I bet he never stopped each time he kissed a girl and thought 'I'm putting myself at risk of catching oral herpes by kissing this girl'. So why should he bother about giving oral sex to you?...answers 14:No. Unless he wants them to.
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